Episodes

Sunday Jul 11, 2021
Period Sex is for Relationships
Sunday Jul 11, 2021
Sunday Jul 11, 2021
In this episode, I am joined by Mandi Tembo, a menstrual health expert to talk about the stigma around periods, and how it affects women in our daily lives and relationships. What is the importance of openly speaking about our period and how can we improve that communication? Follow Mandi's work @thebleedread on Instagram and her personal twitter @mandi_tembo. If you would like to support the podcast visit: www.buymeacoffee.com/feministbar.

Sunday Jul 04, 2021
We are All 'Pick Me's' at Heart
Sunday Jul 04, 2021
Sunday Jul 04, 2021
Welcome to Season Two!! In this episode, I chat with the Brunch and Bantu Knots Podcast: Nessa, Mona, and Rumbii about how the need to be desired affects how we practice our feminism? Are we more forgiving to those we want to want us? How does desirability affect how we respond to infidelity and ill-treatment?

Monday Jun 07, 2021
Queer Dating in Africa is Hell : BONUS PRIDE EPISODE🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Monday Jun 07, 2021
Monday Jun 07, 2021
In honor of PRIDE2021 here is a bonus uncut never released episode on dating, relationships, and heartbreak as a queer woman in Africa. Some things that have become normal to us and those that will always be difficult.

Monday Jun 07, 2021
"Please Come to me As a Woman" - Season Two Snippet
Monday Jun 07, 2021
Monday Jun 07, 2021
Are you ready for season 2? Here is a snippet of our collaboration with Brunch and Bantu Knots Podcast for season 2. Coming Soon!!

Friday May 28, 2021
You F*cked My Man & That's Not Feminist : SEASON FINALE!!
Friday May 28, 2021
Friday May 28, 2021
In this FINALE I am joined by four guests from season one: Zimbarbiean, The Feminist Witch, FKA Kizza and PiaSumn to talk about the parameters of sisterhood and how that translates in infidelity and sex. Can women exclude men from their interactions to make for better community? What role do other women play in helping us out of challenging relationships? See you next season!!

Tuesday May 18, 2021
Loving Feminists is Easy
Tuesday May 18, 2021
Tuesday May 18, 2021
In this week's episode I am with spoken word artist Cristol aka Metaphoric Overdose talk about LOVE. How has feminist love transformed our lives ? Has it changed the way we remember our past relationships ? What are our personal views on love? And are you ready for a new segment ?

Sunday May 09, 2021
Patriarchy Made Me Fake Orgasms
Sunday May 09, 2021
Sunday May 09, 2021
In this week's episode, I have a drink with Pee (aka Pia_Sumn) to chat about sex during adulthood and how we have come to know and speak for our bodies. What are some of the reasons adult women continue to fake sexual pleasure? Is there an empowered way to have sex?

Monday May 03, 2021
Make all Babies Feminists
Monday May 03, 2021
Monday May 03, 2021
In this episode I sit down with Kawire from Kenya to talk about her experience of feminist motherhood, dealing with environments that are not always in her control and the hardships of maneuvering and communicating the absence of a father figure. Will conservative norms ever free us from limited definitions of family?

Monday Apr 26, 2021
Free the Gays in Africa
Monday Apr 26, 2021
Monday Apr 26, 2021
In this week's episode I talk to Lusa, a lawyer/ LGBTQI advocate from Zambia about living queer in Africa, how sexuality has affected friendships & interactions with straight women and finding love in heteronormative spaces. Are we free to find true connections in our home countries ? Can queer people truly live and love in Africa ?

Monday Apr 19, 2021
Patriarchy Rigged Love Languages
Monday Apr 19, 2021
Monday Apr 19, 2021
In this week's episode, I share a glass of wine with Tashinga Bvekerwa aka Zimbarbiean. We discuss navigating feminism in heterosexual relationships and how we draw the line between things we are expected to do and those we have been taught we have to. Are our love languages a result of socialization? Do our politics isolate us in a way that makes it hard to find love?